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I’ve been writing in my “diary” since I was a little kid. Back then, it was a running commentary—what happened at school, what my friends said, what boys I liked (or didn’t). It was a safe ritual, the place I unloaded my day before turning out the light.
Over time, my journaling evolved from a simple log of events to something deeper—an exploration of emotions, patterns, and truths I might not have otherwise noticed.
Still, when I’m in the mood to distract myself, that old diary format comes back full force. The difference now is that I can see it for what it is. Awareness gives me a choice: stay in the surface story, or step into the mirror of the page and really see what’s there.
The Turning Point: Expressive Writing
I opened my journal one morning and realized I could have copy-pasted yesterday’s entry.
Same to-do list. Same frustrations. Same tired smile in the mirror.
My pen wasn’t telling the truth. It was telling a schedule.
Now, this doesn’t happen all the time, but when it does, I know there’s a part of me that only wants to distract. Real feelings, please have a seat on the left—we’ll get to you eventually.
The day my journaling truly became a mirror, without the turns and detours I sometimes take, was when I learned about expressive writing and timed prompts.
If you know me, you know I love a good prompt. It can unlock so many things—and sometimes the prompt you start with is not at all where you end up. Other times, you write about the same prompt again and again, and each time, it reveals something new about yourself.
That day I learned about expressive writing was the day the page became a mirror, not a transcript. I began feeling the emotions as I wrote them. And when I shared them in a group setting—well, first you have to slow down to read your own words, and then you really get to feel into them. It was magic.
Why Event-Based Journaling Holds You Back
Writing only about what happened is comfortable. It feels productive, but it can also be a subtle way to avoid what’s happening inside. Event-based journaling keeps us safely outside ourselves. We never have to touch the raw edges of fear, joy, grief, or longing if we don’t want to.
The Mirror Effect in Embodied Journaling
When journaling becomes a mirror, the page stops reflecting only your day and starts reflecting you.
And the only way there is through your body: the tightness in your chest, the heat in your cheeks, the hollowness in your stomach.
When you write from that place, you enter what I think of as the labyrinth.
Not a maze—there are no dead ends, no wrong turns. A labyrinth has one single, winding path that leads you, inevitably, to the center. The journey may feel long, but each step moves you closer to what’s essential.
In journaling, that center is your truth. The page becomes the pathway, and your pen simply follows it in.
Try This Expressive Writing Prompt Today
✏️ Write about what your body feels, not what your calendar says.
You might just meet a version of yourself you’ve been missing.
Here’s a prompt to help get you started: Write about your relationship to your hands. How have you thought of them, used them, or even abused them over the years? What about now?
Why it works: This is embodied journaling—a practice that grounds your writing in physical sensations, making it harder to distract yourself with surface details.
An Invitation to Write Bravely
If this resonates, you might love Writing Bravely—a calm, weekly space where we explore this kind of embodied journaling together.
No pressure to share, just gentle prompts, real connection, and a safe place to step into your own labyrinth—with others walking their own alongside you.
We start August 19, and I’d love to welcome you into the circle.
A More Rebellious Kind of Therapy at Life Cycles Counseling in Richmond, VA
At Life Cycles Counseling, we go beyond “talk therapy” to create space for accelerated breakthroughs and deeper self-discovery. Our approach blends Intensive Therapy for powerful progress, IFS (Internal Family Systems), Brainspotting, Hypnotherapy, and Ketamine-Assisted Therapy (where appropriate) with Expressive Writing Practices that help you connect with your truest self.
Dr. Adina Silvestri is a licensed professional counselor, entrepreneur, and author with a rebellious edge, helping people feel better faster through innovative treatment options including ketamine therapy, brainspotting, hypnotherapy, and one-week intensives. A lover of fantasy fiction and a firm believer in the power of unconventional healing, she’s passionate about guiding others toward transformation with curiosity and courage.
Her mission? To help you embrace your quirks, reframe them as your superpowers, and reclaim the parts of you the world told you to hide.
